Ok im just venting
So maybe like 3 weeks ago a girl we didnt very much like showed up and wanted to spend time with us because her friendgroup left her. We felt sorry and let her stay for a while because we thaught they were gonna get back to being besties like they used to but she wasnt so we started retreating because she just wasnt compativle with us and we didnt always quite see eye to eye
flashbacks a few days after and shes hanging around with our group without us (me and my bestie). We dont think to much but notice they become more distant to us and become more like her. And then today we had our normal get togther and she was there we didnt talk to her but felt severly excluded even though we were the ones who brought the group together. By the end of the day one of the guys threatens us to send us to jail he claims that he wants to do nothing but punch me dead, another guy ask if were on our period because were were so shocked and hurt by his comment that we got a little defensive, most of the guys laughed at me becuase i stuttered smth and started getting teary eyes. Literally all that was left of our 14 people group was one guy who comforted me while i cried and the other was just kinda clueless but didnt like that girl who was taking over our folks. Funny thing is weve known eachother/been really close friends since middle school has been 12 years ago (mind you none of the boys ever liked her which is why me and my girl were so shocked when they started being with her)and its all falling apart because her and were just watching taking the load like yeah i have a balid reason to cry myself harder to sleep