Q: Is it transphobic to not want to date a pre-op trans person because they are pre-op?
MA: I think yes. (Keep in mind I am a minor and am demisexual.) I have been rejected by many people just because I cannot transition fully yet. I cant for the sole reason that my parents are heavily transphobic. I bind my chest and pass well but people still won’t date me because I am trans and pre-op. I plan on getting bottom and top surgery and, of course, going on T.