so hi, i am writing a harry potter fanfiction. i don't know if i'm just being a sick weirdo but on james' tombstone i wrote it says 'father, husband and dear friend." i don't know whether to keep the 'dear' part as the part of the story is really sad for the characters. on the other hand i feel like remus and sirus, who are both there and free men in this story, would really love it and maybe even james asked for it? i have no idea so please if anyone had any advice, i'd love to hear! thanks :)