**What is Maturity?**
What does maturity mean?
When does a person achieve maturity?
A sign of maturity is that you stop explaining yourself, fall silent, and refrain from arguing.
Even if someone speaks badly of you, respond with "Yes" and smile, moving forward with the thought: "I'm..."
This doesn't mean you are truly like that.
The only difference is that the words or actions of others no longer hold importance for you.
Remember this:
A dog may bark and run after a car only up to a certain distance.
It neither wants to take the car away from you, nor does it want to sit inside the car,
and it doesn't know how to drive.
Similarly, in life's journey, some people develop this habit of creating obstacles on your path without any purpose.
Therefore,
When you are on your way to your destination and others try to hinder you, instead of getting into conflicts, stay focused on your goal.
Remember:
You shouldn't be bitter or seek revenge.
You shouldn't try to outsmart others or set traps.
You shouldn't be cunning enough to be called clever.
And don't dig pits for others to fall into.
Yes, you have wounds—on your heart and even on your soul.
But,
don't prepare a remedy for revenge.
Heavenly remedies are the best.
Divine healing offers true relief.
Let go of what has happened—what's done is done.
Forgive and forget those who hurt you.
Close the door behind you and move forward.
Leave behind the ones who hurt, upset, or trample your spirit.
Focus on improving your own situation.
Because you are not meant to be shaped by circumstances,
but by your deeds.
