OKAY PEOPLE, I'm SICK OF READING RAPE SCENES IN BOOKS THAT ARE LABELED AS ROMANCE!!!! Grrrrr..... I've now started 3 books today and gotten as far as chapter three before the female character, who is innocent about everything, and the author has their male character dupe them into sex before they're ready. Or trick them into sleeping with them, regardless if they are married or not!!! If your partner and you were ready to once sex and the other person asks "if your sure, are you sure", at many points during the time you spend together, you're going to love and appreciate their love and concern for you.... As opposed to stupid Christian Grey who in one of the climatic scenes in the book, says " well have to fix that ", in response to Anastasia saying that she's a virgin, like she's a leeky pipe or something. Then Christian said nothing further the entire time they were making love.... That's not okay and this has bugged me for years!!! That's not asking for concent at all!!! Its sexual assault!!!!