Milka2113
Hello author sahiba!!!!! I am one of the family members from kutumb!!!! I am currently writing this to thank you for making me enjoy and embrace Gujarati culture and language with open heart !!!!!! I live in gujarat vadodara, was born in ahemdabad but was never close to gujarati culture and language. Being a punjabi living in gujarat i always felt outcast by own family and friends because my parents now how to speak gujju my grand parents now how to speak gujju and friends now how to speak gujju but I was never the one speak gujarati or learning about gujarati culture!!!! Whenever I have tried to speak gujarati people at school have laughed at meand bullies me for my very immature and imperfect gujarati and had always outcast me and this could be the reason I some how use to hate gujju people ( now I don't and have exception ) and gujju language!!! But thanks to you and kutumb family now I really appreciate gujju language ( i started learning that ) and gujju culture!!!!! Thank you so much author sahiba and kutumb family for healing something you never broke and showing me learning gujarati can be fun !!!! ( Cause before that it was not !!!! trust me I was really bad at that ) Thank you and love you author sahiba for this healing therapy of uploading kutumb chapter every weekend!!!!! (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
thatbrowncraft
@Milka2113 kem maaf karjo, but you genuinely made my day even better than it already was. Listen… people around you will always have opinions. Some harsh, some half-baked, and only a very few will actually be kind. That’s just how it is. But here’s something life teaches the hard way, don’t let any of those opinions touch your peace. Not the bad ones, not even the good ones. Just smile a little, shrug, and move on. Because the truth is, people forget. They move on like nothing happened. But the one who felt it, carries it. And that’s why I’m saying this to you… for your own mental peace, don’t hold onto what hurt you. Choose yourself first. When you truly do that, their words, their judgments, all of it starts losing power. It won’t reach you the same way anymore. The world can be harsh, unfair, even ugly at times. But at the same time, it’s also warm, kind, and unexpectedly beautiful. You just have to not let the wrong people define your experience of it. Life is already short. Don’t spend it replaying what others said or did. Let them be. Most of them won’t even realize the impact they had, let alone apologize. So don’t carry that weight anymore. Leave it here. And live freely, for yourself… and for the people who truly love you, who do love you, and who will love you♥️
thatbrowncraft
@Milka2113 Princess … this message stayed with me. I don’t even know where to start, but thank you for trusting me with something so personal. What you went through… feeling left out, being laughed at for just trying… that does something to a person. And the fact that you still chose to try again instead of completely shutting that part of yourself down? That’s strength. A real one, to be specific. And can I just say this clearly? You speak Gujarati beautifully. I’ve read your comments. There’s confidence, emotion, and flow in your words. Even if you couldn't then also it doesn't matter. Language is not a barrier anymore. Don’t ever let those old experiences make you doubt that again. Also, the fact that Kutumb became even a small reason for you to reconnect with the language and culture… that’s honestly the biggest compliment I could ever receive as a writer. You didn’t just read the story. You let it change something inside you. That’s rare. And about people laughing back then… they were wrong. Simple as that. Nobody gets to decide your place in a culture or a language. And if they're too interested in judging you then let them, cause others can only judge you but never be you. So chill sweetheart. Even am.not perfect but people at my workplace call me narcissist lol, cause I love myself whatever i do. So i suggest you to do the same. At the end, novody can be you. Not our parents, not friend or our relatives. We're here for our purpose so let live it, complete it and let not other’s opinion bother our peqce and divine energy affect anymore. You'll live better than them, trust me. You belong wherever you choose to belong. I’m really, really glad you’re here… not just as a reader, but as a part of this family. So much love to you ✨️ And keep writing those Gujarati comments, I’m always reading them with a smile. ~your author sahiba♥️