@theclumsywrites yk I gathered this experience and learnt this lesson from my closest ppls hehe... Tho I'm glad we are in good terms... But in a certain period of time I learnt that it's okay to care for them to love them to be with them but not too much that when they do something or may be leave it'll hurt me... Cuz they are human they'll hurt me somehow it's true, intentionally or mistakingly it'll happen someday I believe it... We all have hurt someone may be knowingly or may be without even noticing... So best is to forgive them and move on for our own good... But just don't forget what you learnt. It heals.. and behave normal accepting it.
I'm an intro I notice ppl, I might be a fool or silly sometimes but I try not be attached with ppl so much. and I try to give ppl attention as much as they give me, unless they are facing some problems and I could help...I let my guard down at that time that too within a limit lol cuz I can't tolerate ppl taking advantages of me or someone. So if you feel like this feel free to ignore them mostly unless they ask don't talk, according to me being picky with ppl is necessary :) so be picky when you feel you are not worth their behaviour...
idk how I presented you my happy life hacks cuz I'm not good at explaining things :(((
But I hope you understand and I really hope you heal and get someone trustworthy <333
