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Midnight blonde? I can't help but wonder if you share my daughter's problem: Pretty girl body shamed for being a bit too eye catching. Blond/blue eyes ... tall as her Mom... She is 13 years old and 34F bra size. & she gets body shamed for making other girls feel insecure by just being pretty. It is off limits to body shame someone overweight or almost anything else... but show up turning guys heads and you are evil. Civility is turned OFF. She has been harassed by some teachers over the dress code while they stared at her chest and ignored other female students wearing rather less. More recently she has fielded accusations that her figure is fake (Who would do plastic surgery on a kid?)... or talk about popping her balloons. Plus, because she is too young to have a boyfriend, there are actually people questioning whether she is straight or not! (4real?!) I know school can be a rough place but sometimes... UGH. It has been (a lot of) generations. Why can't we ever find a way to fix the world before our kids have to live in it? Even my son was s^ually harassed and publicly embarrassed when he politely insisted that he only wanted to be friends. Someone didn't like having his flirting and passes refused and didn't handle it well. We reported that one; the teacher creeper(s) we didn't hear about before she switched schools. I hate this stuff and I hate it that we find out too little too late because they try to handle things themselves. Why don't they tell us anything!!! Half of the time it seems we find out stuff by accident. Sorry, It's late and I started ranting.