"inner" dialogue dont come to you only. 
everyone wanders round with ids and egos and SUPERegos, brain chemistries and cultural experiences, and very different realities. everyone compares and judges. even judging others is normal. comparison is very human. it is sad, but it is so. it's part of being human

"inner critics, insecurities, fears" come to everyone-everyone.
everyone, yes
everyone, has

and i, i'll be always am, all i can do is be me, it's me...