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I've always thought heteronormativity was like, a toned down version of homophobia. But it's also worse, because its almost passive aggressive.
"You're gay? That's weird."
That kind of depressing shit. If there's a gender version (cisnormative or something) it probably hurts more:
"You're enby? Oh, I always thought you were normal."
*weird not understanding noises*
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