@tokkije damn I completely understand this one cause same, I hate how people are often so blinded by fanism that they forget that what they are reading is still a well formed story that can be a stand alone with original characters too and when they would be reading it with ocs they will hate or if they are horny kids than they will still love it instead of actually seeing the point of a story is THE STORY ITSELF and what it is trying to show which in your case was trying to show a toxic relationship and not lusty scenes but ppl are too engrossed in them to notice the actual message of the book