Consider this like my little diary of our journey through a difficult love between a trans and a straight girl. The challenges we face and what we do to stay true to our love for each other. Please note that I use "he/his/him" for a pronoun to describe my partner instead of she/her/hers. A transgender/transexual is anyone whose sex doesn't match up with what they were born with. Sex refers to the physical organ a person is born with, while gender is who they really are.