Sometimes,we let other people to destroy us in order for them to be happy.You let them ruin you for their own happiness.You let them destroy you because its the only way for you to see them happy.But how about you? lagi nalang ba sila? did you ever questioned yourself "Masaya ba ako sa ginagawa ko?"You always cared for them when you ,can't even take care of yourself.You always say "Para sa kanila 'to." But you never say "Paano naman ako?" Minsan akala natin,kapag wala na yung taong nagpapasaya satin,hindi na din tayo magiging masaya.You just ever think of that because you never find your true happiness.Your happiness doesnt come from other people,it always come from you.It comes from how happy are you doing that thing,how proud are you when you fixed that problem alone,without asking anyone for help.Nagiging dependent tayo kasi lagi nalang tayo nanghihingi ng tulong sa kanila.Pero hindi natin alam na kaya natin gawin ang mga bagay na iyon without their help.We asked for their help when we can do better that their suggestion.Just believe in yourself and let them know that you can do it without their help. That you are independent in yourself. With or without them,you can continue your life as long as you want to.