tuesdaydusk

Me on my gender identity: 
          	
          	But like I also have no personal feelings towards my gender. Technically, I'm female, but I don't "feel" like a woman. 
          	
          	I mean, I also don't get periods despite almost being 21 (not sure what happened there if I'm intersex or what), so... I can't really relate to typical female experiences.
          	
          	Perhaps it's because I'm obsessed with glam and just wish I looked like an androgynous pretty boy despite being female. But something about the idea of people not being able to tell my gender really appeals to me for some reason. 

tuesdaydusk

Me on my gender identity: 
          
          But like I also have no personal feelings towards my gender. Technically, I'm female, but I don't "feel" like a woman. 
          
          I mean, I also don't get periods despite almost being 21 (not sure what happened there if I'm intersex or what), so... I can't really relate to typical female experiences.
          
          Perhaps it's because I'm obsessed with glam and just wish I looked like an androgynous pretty boy despite being female. But something about the idea of people not being able to tell my gender really appeals to me for some reason. 

tuesdaydusk

Someone once called me dumb on Threads for stating my skin color was a privilege in regards to ICE. Do they not know what racial profiling is?

tuesdaydusk

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@tuesdaydusk like put me next to a darker skinned person when I'm vampiric fucking white. I am far less likely to be deported.
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tuesdaydusk

Caillou is on Tubi going to throw up. 

hayterade

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@tuesdaydusk chromosomes don’t mean shit!!  People act like trans women aren’t allowed to exist and trans men aren’t allowed to exist and non-binary people aren’t allowed to exist, yet don’t even know intersex people exist.  It’s ridiculous. 
            
            They also love to act like there weren’t gay people or trans people before the 20th century.  BROTHER WAKE UP!  In the American west during the late 1800s so many queer and trans people fled to get away from society and live their lives freely.  And that’s only one small part of history!   There are countless tales of trans folk before the 20th century.  The issue is, the people who don’t want to believe those historical facts are the same type to not learn from the tragedies of the past either. 
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tuesdaydusk

See, the funny thing is that with the "trans people are delusional" narrative... I could say the same for these people's religion? So what are they getting at? There's more proof of trans people than Christianity. And if gender dysphoria is a mental illness, why not treat it? You can't make these people happy.  
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tuesdaydusk

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@hayterade "OH BUT XY CHROMOSOMES MALE" SO FUCKING WHAT. People don't have to live life according to anyone's "reality". Some cultures have a third gender! That's their reality! And they have for thousands of years. 
            
            I feel like a lot of older people are also just confused, though, and live in their own bubble when it comes to queer existences. So I like to give the clueless older folks a bit more grace sometimes. We have a very Christian view on gender in the good old USA. 
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tuesdaydusk

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I utterly despise people who exclude the "T" from LGBTQ+ 
          
          Mf, it is not the LGB. Not only does that not roll off the tongue quite as easily, but you were never a part of the queer community to begin with. Kindly fuck off.

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@hayterade chromosomes don't even fully determine biological sex. They are showing their 8th grade biology understanding. A woman can have XY chromosomes. It's called complete androgen sensitivity syndrome.
            
            Also, the transvestigators omfg. They're so stupid. They sometimes do this to me, lol. "You'll never be a real woman!" Okay, because I'm not a bigot, I'm a biological man. That makes no sense.
            
            Even with Blaire White (I know a lot of people dislike her) to me, she's just a pretty woman. Like, who's going around inspecting genitals? Weirdos fr. I always just go "ah yes, a beautiful person" regardless of gender identity.
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hayterade

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@tuesdaydusk they’re taught to hate anyone that is different than them from a young age, most of the time.  I think a good chunk of transphobes are either misogynistic, or have internalized misogyny, so they hate women to begin with.  Then you present them with a trans woman who their uneducated brains choose to see as a “man,” and they freak out.  Their issues lie in how they were raised and their inability to understand anyone who lives life having a different experience from them.  Also, I find it funny how these imbeciles can see a cisgender woman with wide shoulders and claim they are trans, but then get so pissy when a trans woman is passing and “deceives” them.  They ain’t deceiving shit, dawg, she is a WOMANNN and you are STUPIDDD <3  transphobes are just mad the trans community has each others backs 
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tuesdaydusk

People are psycho. 
            
            "Trans people are mentally ill" 
            
            Same dude: *threatens violence*
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tuesdaydusk

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I'm about to write something very personal on my wall rn that has to do with my gender experience and would piss off the transphobes
          
          I think a lot of nonbinary afab have difficulty relating to the female experience. See, for me, when I found out what a period was in 4th grade, I fainted. Every other girl in middle school seemed to talk about it with excitement, and I'm like living in fear from 10-17, lol. Curiously, I never got a period despite being female. Either I lack the uterus required or have male chromosomes. I quite literally said fuck you biology aren't I an icon ✨️ 
          
          Also for anyone wondering about my actual health relating to this it's just a weird medical quirk. My health is even above average. I have an excellent immune system, although I'm also pretty petite and skinny at 4'11" 95 lbs. Doctors have never been concerned about my weight or anything. 

tuesdaydusk

Guys... is anyone I care about still here? I promise I haven't abandoned anyone. I'm over on Threads primarily. 

hayterade

@tuesdaydusk yeah, that’s basically how it is :/  there’s like two people I follow who are still active, but one doesn’t follow me back, and the other doesn’t seem to interact with anybody.  Everybody else only pops up on rare occasion.  The amount of people I saw act like they were going to be more active this summer and then weren’t… kinda painful :’) 
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tuesdaydusk

@hayterade you are the only one I see still active tbh. I don't see updates from anyone else except like once every few months.
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hayterade

@tuesdaydusk you know I’m still active here!  I feel like a lot of everyone else only comes on every once in awhile tho :/ 
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tuesdaydusk

People are too obsessed with transpeople's genitals these days. How is policing women's bathrooms supposed to make them feel safe? "Like ma'am you need to prove you're female" wtf like why do they care? They're not in the stalls with them.