Okay, so about the Kit Connor's coming out situation *pulls their sleeves up* as a person who has not had the best coming out moment, I feel terrible that a literal teen who just represented the LGBTQ+ community in such an amazing show has to go through this. The heartstopper fans did not pass the vibe check bro. I feel terrible.
'Queerbating' was a term initially used for "fictional characters" who were hinted to be queer but were never given their proper storyline. To make guesses about someone's sexuality, that too someone who you don't even know irl is so so disrespectful, as it falls right into the old stereotypes. Whatever may be Kit's or any other person's sexuality is none of our business, unless they let us know themselves. Sexuality is fluid and not everything needs a label. We are humans, not products being sold in supermarkets.
Sorry for the rant, I'm just awfully pissed off. *Sigh*