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Here’s hoping this world wide lockdown situation means that lots of writers will finally be coming back to finish their books lmao. Sick of getting 2728262 notifications for them to only be status updates and not book ones 

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Here’s hoping this world wide lockdown situation means that lots of writers will finally be coming back to finish their books lmao. Sick of getting 2728262 notifications for them to only be status updates and not book ones 

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I don’t understand how girls find it “romantic” when a WEAK female protagonist ends up falling for all the büllshit the guy who repeatedly fücked her over feeds her just before they live out their “happily ever after” lol. It’s not romantic it’s pathetic, weak and embarrassing so stop idolising/romanticising the idea of it and be a girl/woman who knows her damn worth. Smh ‍♀️

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I am a rather rude and mean person when I read something I disagree with - e.g. weakness shown by the mistreated person(s) towards their tormenter. So while I will not apologise for my own opinions/criticism for I am speaking my mind and expressing how I feel, my use of foul language (at times) and how much of a rude bitch I come off as isn't very friendly. For that, I am sorry and hope no one takes too much offence. 

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This past week I've had the pleasure of stumbling across many old stories that I once read when I first discovered and fell in love with wattpad. I must admit, it's interesting to see how much I have grown and changed as well as my taste in stories and novels. Still though, it's nice to go back and reread things that a more innocent, inexperienced and off with the fairies me used to love and hold close to her soul for the stories I'm talking about were still good in a sense but it's just funny to see how much I along as my reading preferences have changed over the years; I'm a lot more realistic and some sappy, cliche love story just isn't enough to soothe the yearning in my heart anymore and that's okay, because I've grown up a bit more I guess...

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What's so wrong with a girl who has given herself to another man? I'm forever reading stories about over 20 virgins who give their innocence to notorious play boys who have had their large share of women. It's more annoying rather than "romantic" that the girl is a cliche virgin at the age of 22 or 26 or even 30! There's nothing new wrong with having had sex with another man or many beforehand. It doesn't sit right with me that we are encouraging young girls who read these stories to follow the old ways of always being so romantic and girly and innocent. This is the 21st century, we are now a gender where we are okay with loving others before the one we meet. Where is the representation of our independence and our strength? Some people need to step out of their fantasy land, girls nowadays have sex (gasp) and lots of it with more than one man; for once I just want to read about a strong, confident women who is open to and okay with that...

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I'll never understand why most stories have a weak female protagonist. I find it rather offensive, stereotypical and embarrassing that writers are posting up stories where women are shown as being weak, rather reserved, ever forgiving virgins. Whatever happened to William Congreve's saying "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"? I'm forever finding myself reading about women with no backbone who continuously let a man walk all over them making a fool out of them publicly yet they sweep it all under a rug and run back to their tormentor with open arms as if they were caused no harm, hurt, heartbreak and pain. The image that writers seem to be giving off of women in these stories gets to me for we are a strong, self loving, outspoken and brave gender yet I barely see any stories where all that is accounted for. I guess I'm just disappointed really because how are we supposed to encourage young girls to grow up as strong, confident, beautiful women when the stories we are giving them to read tell them that it is okay to be mistreated, played, shamed etc and to forgive so easily casting aside all the pain that has been caused. We're meant to set an example for these young girls but what are we doing instead? Making a mockery out of women...

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I feel like such a feminist due to my comments on some (most, almost every) stories I read but I can't help that girls don't know how to write anything other than shit where the female lead characters are fkn weak and sappy and so cliche...like wtf is wrong with you there are actually girls out there who have backbones and it's okay to write about those kind of girls too..smh pls stahp writing peasants *middle finger emoji*

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Ugh why are majority of these romance stories so cliche and frustratingly predictable no matter what kind it is? Like wow of course the girl is a virgin and he is a slut and he either continouosly fks her over or fks her over really bad but she barely does anything to get back at him and then gives herself to him after a shit apology...Why can't the females in the story ever really have the balls to stand up for themselves for once and really do a number on the guy like actually going out without him and having fun (and the great physical kind) with someone else instead of being a little bitch moping while the lead male fricks her around? why can't the guy work his effing ass off just to get her attention again let alone get her back and wtf, why do the girls always blush n go quiet at perverted things directed at them or the slightest bit of nudity...wat da faq this is 2014, sex and nudity and most sexual things are common and frequently happen in life and those reactions don't even happen as much now... ugh, rant over. soz