If you don't like your destiny, don't accept it.
-Naruto Shippuden
Thats a quote who actually tells the truth and I can totally agree with it.
I stood here around 3 years ago. On Wattpad. I wrote with many other users with many problems and the most were suffering. I tried to help everyone and didnt get enough time to solve my own problems.
I deleted Wattpad and took time for myself.
That's when life changed.
Nobody can really help you to solve your problems if you don't want them to be solved.
If you don't want your life to be changed.
I started to feel comfortable in sadness but decided to be a happier person. Because I was always negative which made my friends sadlier as well. I ruined their good mood. So I started to think more positive and learned that EVERYTHING just comes from your MIND.
YOU have to decide what you want.
YOU have to decide to be happier.
YOU have to decide if you wanna change anything.
Because there are always solutions and even if you can't see them - Life will go on.
Stop always thinking so negative.
Your mind will change your life positively and if you want to you can do and reach EVERYTHING.
Believe in your strength.
Believe in yourself.
But do something to change your destiny. Don't just accept it.
If you never start doing something new, everything will stay the same.
So, do something and show everyone how strong you are!
Btw:
I know that life can be hard sometimes but I see life as a kind of challenge. And since then I always won. Because I fight and make the best out of every situation. I always stand up again. Search for solutions instead of doubt on yourself, because it won't change anything. Do something you like, expand your knowledge, whatever - JUST DO IT.
Since I learned that I'm a way happier person.
You have to learn that from inside and believe in it.
[Last but not least: English is not my native language, so I'm sorry if I wrote something wrong. I just wanted more people to understand.]