I just lost a friend bc I was too honest about him insulting me, he judged me based upon my view of the world and accused me of being narrow minded and culturally blind. And when I tried to defend myself, he deleted the fb post and unfriended me. I was feeling so bad and thought I should've kept my mouth shut; but I realized that someone who cares about you would never do this, and that I was wasting my time and efforts with him. I looked up to him as a person, and now it just came back to bite me in the ass, and then people ask me why i am so bitter, why i have trust issues, because when I try to say what is on my mind, I get rejected.