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What in the reverse Asian parent card did my mum just pull because today’s dress casual, I put on a pair of jeans and she made me change it into a skirt ?? Bro literally ruined my entire outfit im going to crash out

Does anyone have advice on what I should do with a friend who I used to be best friends but then we drifted apart because she changed...
          
          Like 'changed' not in the way that she doesn't like me or treat me nice anymore, but more that the way she acts changed quite dramatically from when I first met her (the way she presents herself and stuff)...like we are still friends, but we don't talk that often anymore, but we still hangout in a group with some other friends. To be honest, if I had only known her now, we probably might not even be friends because of how different we are now...
          
          But then, my close frds and best frds who used to be frds with her kinda dislike her, because of the way she acts and how much she had changed, (like me, my best friend for 3 years, her and her ex-best friend used to be like a rlose frd group, but then that group fell apart eventually because she and her ex-bestie fell apart...a lot of drama back then, but even when everything's resolved now, my best friend still avoids talking or interacting with her)...so i feel a little conflicted in this situation...like rn, it seems like I'm breaking the girls code in some way, but then I don't want to lose either side of the friendship
          
          But yea, it's been an issue for a while now, and I honestly want to distance myself from her because of our difference (not to hate her or anything), but then, we are again in another friendgroup with some of my other frds 
          
          (I feel like this sounds really confusing sorry)

Does anyone have good minsung stories to recommend?? Anything would work fine :)) (I just need the story to have good writing lol)

D1 to hollow !!! I’m genuinely so excited tho I feel like it would be my fav jp album from skz lowkey… HOLLOW IS SO ADDICTIVE IVE BEEN LOOPING IT SINCE ITS BEEN RELEASED

Listening to youthful for emotional support (can’t talk a lot since some of my irl frds follow me)

ALSO I HAVE SWIM GALA TODAY  WHICH I LOWKEY DONT REALLY CARE ABOUT THE SWIMMING BUT MY FRDS AND I ARE GOING TO ALL YOU CAN EAT AFTERWARDS SO IM EXCITED (big backing before the summer is crazy but wtv im young)

HEHE I HAD MY DANCE PERFORMANCE YESTERDAY AND IT WAS SO FUN ☹️☹️

pt 6:
          
          To keep in mind, he was a middle-aged man, around 40-50 smth, who is apparently a university professor (he has an extremely high ego and continuously reminded us about his position), and all of his rude or aggresive actions were to secondary school (middle /high school) students around my age. While I would say that some of his judging points are correct, his rude, low and offensive attitude made me (and my friends) just, really want to beat the SHIT out of him. I swear, I have NEVER, EVER met an adult, who is supposedly an educator and professional, speak or act that way to teenagers who are 3 times younger than him. Anyways, my friends plan on reporting him because of his actions, and hopefully, we will NEVER encounter another judge like that :( 
          
          thanks for listening to my yap if anyone bothered to read everything

pt 5:
          
          On top of everything, throughout his speeches and all of the feedback that he had given, he uses some rather sexist and unprofessional metaphors in his language. For instance, he opened by saying how we should debate by taking references from our parents’ arguments (which was frankly quite weird), by further detailing about how our mums would persuade our dads to let her buy a purse or smth like that (I won’t go further into exactly what he said). I honestly found it slightly sexist that he would assume that’s how every family’s dynamic work and that his joking attitude did not help. Another metaphor he used was regarding the fact that we need to go off script (AGAIN, I understand his viewpoint) by using the example on how a boy would propose to a girl while speaking to them directly, not with a script in hand. Perhaps he thought he was very humorous, but everyone was just laughing slightly due to embarrassment, not because of his ‘metaphors’. Lastly, he made an extremely rude comment about one of the debaters in the finals round, saying that the debater ‘looks like he isn’t paying attention to the other side’ and that his face looks annoying or ‘讓人討厭’ (@ocean_stay39 , I need your translation). He further joked and said that he wanted to throw something at that debater, which I thought was really rude for him to say to a student.

pt 4:
          
          Because we lost the semi-finals, we couldn’t proceed into the finals, which I think was kinda a pity since we also prepared a lot for that topic. During the debate for finals, both teams did quite well, but personally, but I would agree that side opposition did slightly better. Before the results were announced, the judges gave their feedback again. That man, was again emphasizing on the point and purpose of debating - basically really general comments instead of specific, detailed feedback that would actually help the students improve. And guess what, that man had the audacity to mention ME. Like I would just quote everything in which that he had said ‘I would like to actually apologise to this one girl who I’ve talked to in the semi-finals round (me), because I admit that I was a little worked up since it was the first time in a while who had stood up and questioned my judging.’ he then went on to sorta compliment me for being passionate about the the competition enough to argue, but me and my friends just collectively think he wasn’t sincere about it. Personally, he might’ve just said that to avoid my team or the teachers from reporting him or anything for acting all aggressive towards me. Now for the results of the final rounds, I was actually slightly surprised to see that side proposition had won (regardless, I still think they deserve it). However, this is when one of the boys from my team stood up and questioned the judge by saying smth like ‘Could you provide actual, detailed feedback on their points, content and rebuttals instead of general statements’ (honestly insane aura gain in that one moment), which the judge didn’t answer and the MC had to defend the judge by saying ‘Well, the judge had done a pretty decent job in explaining his judging’ (I strongly disagree).