Can I just say that the moral of your story, She, is inspirational and heartfelt. Really I mean it, it was mind-opening by the fact you're totally right and that was a hard truth to come by for me. But like you said we all lose ourselves because of certain events in life, the hard part now, is finding your way back to who you really are, and you helped me realise that this is my problem- I need to find myself again. Thank you, all this might sound cheesy but it's the truth, your stories help and mean something; at least they do for me.