“Alice came to a fork in the road. 'Which road do I take?' she asked.
'Where do you want to go?' responded the Cheshire Cat.
'I don't know,' Alice answered.
'Then,' said the Cat, 'it doesn't matter.” 
- Alice in Wonderland

people often introduce them selfs here but, you see, I can't do that if I myself don't  even know who I am.

" Why do I, and everyone I love, pick people who treat us like we're nothing?"
"Cause we accept the love we think we deserve"

under your bed.