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Bitches out here romanticizing controlling and toxic relationships and it needs to stop thanks

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Okay so this might just be me but I think it's weird as hell to gender bend just one character in a ship.
          
          Let's say we have a paring of two lovely dudes in a relationship. It's weird as fuck to just make one of those characters a girl. Like why not just gender bend both of them? Why do they need to be straight? Same goes for a dude and a lady, why gender bend one of them?
          
          That's just fucking weird to me. What if the two dudes are both gay? If one of them was a girl they wouldn't even date. So the pairing doesn't make any sense then. Or if a female turns into a dude and the non gender bent guy is straight. It makes no sense. Like how about we don't erase the sexualities of other people? 
          
          While I'm at it shipping real people is also fucking weird. Like do you think your favorite YouTuber wants to know that people want them to have sex with their friend? Ew. It makes shit awkward. 
          
          Like I'll read fanfiction about real people, and I'll just laugh at it most of the time as weird as that sounds. But like, no matter what it is whoever they write about always acts like a completely different person. And it's always so sexual. I dont know if fanfic writers know this but people in relationships dont just fuck eachother. 
          
          Thanks for coming to my tedtalk.

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Okay so this a vent post, talks about mental illness and family problems if that's triggering to you don't read this
          
          My sister has bipolar disorder and has recently moved out with a guy she's been dating for like 5 months. He's a total dipshit and she isn't on her meds because he says "you're not the same when you take them." 
          
          She moved out because my Mom wanted her to do more around the house since she spent 4 months jobless and not in school and she just sat around doing nothing all day. She got pissed and left. 
          
          The guy she's with is a major asshat and is controlling (he tells her what to wear and shit like that, and he did it infront of my mom). I'm worried about her but at the same time I'm kind of glad she isn't living here anymore? That sounds terrible but she insults me over the littlest shit. Whenever we argued she'd call me a cold hearted bitch, a c*nt, a terrible person... last night she sent me a long text asking who I wanted her to testify in favor of (divorce custody shit). I figured it could be anyone from an aunt to a grandparent so I was like "who's this?" 
          
          A direct quote from her, "Your sister you fuckin idiot" "How many sisters do you have??"
          
          I said "I have a new phone dipshit your contact isn't saved"
          
          She said, "Apparently I got all the fucking brains, you dont don't know context clues? ?
          Stupid bitch......fuck"
          
          Let me just say I definitely has the brains. Her grades were yikes.
          
          I said, "I didn't know if this was a fucking aunt or something shut up"
          
          And she said, "Wantever, even when I'm nice youre such a little cunt, such whiney little fuck...." "Call me for fucks sake I hate texting"
          
          And I call her, then her asshole of a boyfriend tries to give me advice and I say, "gotta go" after 20 awkward minutes. 
          
          I just cannot stand talking to her but my Mom is trying to get her home. Which is cool because she has a job now but at the same time I hate talking to her. I'm also worried about her safety.