A few weeks ago, my close family(my cousin, my tia, my grandma, my mom, my brother, and my sister)and I were at the mall buying stuff. We were sitting in front of a carousel, that the mall where I'm from has, and we were just talking and idk how it came up but they were calling my brother gay (which he isn't) playfully and I whispered in my moms ear "the only non straight person here is me" that was a mistake. She then turned to everyone and said what I told her and my brother corrected her saying I was pansexual. My family accepted me which I'm glad for, but I wasn't ready to tell them and in a public place where people can listen in to conversations. She said "pos nimodo, you shouldn't have told me that" and that just makes me not trust her more. Also, yesterday she said it was ok for my brother to be gay but it's not for me. My parents said that I'm "confused" about everything and that I "wouldn't know" because I haven't been with anybody. I wish I could leave but I can't