if someone embarrasses you and you react negatively to it, it's fair right? ok so tell me why you turn out to be the bad person because you defended yourself and said "stop!" but everyone turned against you because the other person said it was just a joke and that you shouldn't overreact about it. no. that not how it works. you still got embarrassed and they didn't care how you felt. so why are you the bad guy?
thx for listening.