(Disclaimer: This is not for sure to work out your sexuality because it takes a lot of thinking, feelings, and clue in order for you to figure it out. If this doesn't help, don't worry about it, your body will tell you when the time is ready!)
So, let's say that you think you are bi-curious, and you want to know for sure if you are straight or bi without breaking someone's heart by dating them. (I will be using advice from a female's perspective) Here are a few steps:
1. Think about a really pretty girl in your age group that you think has a great personality as well.
2. Think about that person and yourself as a couple, holding hands, hugs, kisses, etc.
3. How do you feel?
4. Now imagine what people would say if they saw you and that person holding hands. Is it specifically because of that person? Ignore those people. How do you respond to them?
5. Based on what you said, you'll know. Reminder! Try to have an unbiased opinion. Don't lie to yourself. You can't force your sexuality. Don't tell yourself "I wish I was bi/straight/lesbian/gay" that will just lead to broken hearts. Maybe your's, maybe someone else's, but a broken hear is still a broken heart.
Stay strong, luv ya!
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RandomThoughts, Rants, and Tips on being bi-sexual. These are first-hand experiences in my life but the names will be anonymous to protect everyone involved.
