How to educate people/ win an argument.

[Stright culture]

okay. here's what to say when you are commenting on the odd things straight people do like, ships two lil kids together, ask two gay men who are in a relationship "which one is the woman in the relationship, and so much more. Before we start to try emphasizing the SOME in "some straight people" or the MAINLY in "these actions aren't limited to one person but it's is mainly seen in straight people. if you've done this already then let proceed. 

If you are familiar to the definition of stright culture and how it's simply a list of different characteristics, attributes, and activities. Though it's important to understand that just it's not limited to straight people but rather it is mainly straight people who do those things.  Thus making the"why you hate straight people" claim wouldn't be fitting for I'm just connecting something to straight culture while understanding that it's not only straight people but I've mainly seen straight people do those things. For example when I said "what's up with straight people and them shipping to little kids together" it was meant in, it's quite odd that people would do that but I've seen it said mainly by straight people to the point it's just a straight culture thing. When looking at data you wouldn't pay attention to the low percentage of something but rather the bigger one for it is telling you something interesting. That's how the what about the other sexuality argument is like. while it's important to note that it's present in other sexuality it doesn't put it as the main focus for it's a small percentage. The main focus should be where the statistics /data are high for they are their focus right now.  it's like when a person is talking about how it's mainly men raping women and then someone else buts in and says but men get raped too. These two points overlap for it is statistically proven that people who are raped are mainly raped by men but it doesn't exclude woman who rapes but giving how the bigger issue is that the rape it is done mainly by men it should be more focused on that for that's the bigger problem currently in the category. 

[if they use there sexuality as an excuse]

Just because you are a part of the lgbtq it doesn't stop one from being homophobic, racist, transphobic, etc. Being lgbtq doesn't makes a person good. If you make a homophobic joke like, "whos the man and who's the woman" and you are not gay then that's a homophobic thing to do. It doesn't matter if it's meant as a" joke" or you thought it was okay to joke about for you've seen other people do it. It's important to take into consideration that the "joke" was created by homophobic straight people in order to make gay and lesbian people in relationships unconferbel and embassered. it stems from the belief that there has to be a  male and female figure for there to be "balance". there's an endless list of homophobic things that mainly straight people say every day without realizing but also people who aren't gay say. 

[if they are bi]

Being bisexual isn't being half straight and half gay, it's a literal spectrum. like most sexuality, it's oftentimes a spectrum. 

[end it]

but hey it's easy to take things at face value without putting much thought into things. as the saying goes, "a simple thing to you might not be as simple to the other". meaning that people tend to view things differently and see a different picture that's unique to one's way of thinking and mindset.