ok, so playtonic is ok for me, I like flirting with friends and usaully they will flirt back but that doesn't mean I want to date them. I love my friends but I won't go off and date them- its like going off and dateing your siblings. its just not the prefered thing to do. I have playtonic husbands but we don't usaully mind- we just have that way of playing with eachother. we wouldn't fully date and that is ok.