Well let me say this first up and make it clear. THERE IS NO WAY TO DEAL WITH IT! Boys are confusing as hell and give us girls the shits most of the time, but we wouldn't live without them! People always say "just go for it" when you say you have a crush on someone right? Well it's not always that easy is it?
Boys don't like to express how they feel - without a push anyways. So there is little to no way of knowing if he really likes you back. That's the hardest part of having a crush on someone is definitely the possibility of rejection and embarrassment. Now I know that not all guys will feel the need to reject or embarrass you if you tell them you like him but there's a 50/50 chance it will happen.
If the guy you like is one of the most popular/higher standard of guys at your school/workplace. This is where it gets even trickier! They may be a ridiculously nice person but the people he associates himself with may not be. That's not an easy situation to deal with so here's what I suggest. If you are able to approach him, ask to talk to him (maybe away from others so you get the undivided attention you deserve) this way you can be open with him about asking him out and not have to worry about embarrassing yourself in front of his friends. Which will always make the situation 100% easier!
If you fail and it ends up a bigger mess than imagined, abort mission. Unless your the type of person who can brush things like that off and start again. In that case, I applaud you! If your successful, then I am 23037202% happy for you and I congratulate you for being amazing!
Just remember that boys are one of the most confusing things in the world besides maths and science. Calm yourself, think positive and everything will be fine. But boys will ALWAYS be confusing!
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De TodoThis is more of a story about my disasters with the male population. But also a little guide on how to deal with boys in general!! Trust me... You won't believe how stupid one person can be?!?