Maturity

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1. Caught him cheating : be the mature on , don't yell or cause any drama . The attention mostly goes to the source, you're degrading yourself . Just walk away like a big girl, that's his way of wanting out of the relationship. He doesn't know how to call it quits ...he might and just wants an excuse to get out .
Let's be real , they cheat A LOT! They just feel like having one girl is asking for too much . I don't care what you do , it depends on who you're cheating in me with . He can leave a diamond for a lump of coal , yeah they have something in common - they're both carbon molecules - but  the other is valuable and that's me . He'll soon realize that that he's lost something precious.

2. A men will compliment because let's be honest , we all love them ; you know sometimes when he asks you out and you can't help but put on your best outfit ,spent hours trying to look your best for him and he doesn't notice or admire your sexy look. Spent a thousand barks .....bitch turn back , come out when he comes to his senses.  Oh oh! So you try to make him special , you ask him what he'd love to see you in then he reacts with a ..." Anything is fine " a stab to the heart .
So you do just that , when you come out wearing indecent clothes like your casual Tuesday clothes
" what are you wearing?, we're not going anywhere with you looking like that " screw this , you can go on your own !!!
3. If he's mature, he'll own up to his wrong doings or even if it was not his fault,  he'll try to make up and be the first to make this right between you.

If he doesn't, he still needs to grow some balls.....

4. There are some things that need to be prioritised; need s for example .... purchasing game systems , latest gadgets and whatnot are more like wants and can be done at a later stage . PRIORITISE   MAN !!!! don't be a boy ....

5.Reaction ; if he reacts viciously toward bad news then he clearly need to do some growing . A mature person thinks before saying or doing anything. It is not only about receiving news , it's also about his perspective. Well thought ideas are a glance of maturity .

   If thinking twice doesn't suffice then maybe three times is a charm. 

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