How To Treat A Real Woman

Sexual Healing

When a real woman is taken care of by someone that truly values her as a person & not as a toy to be put on the shelf, there will more than likely be an expectation that if you treat her well out of the bedroom, she will expect you to know how to treat her inside the bedroom. Now, this may not be true for all women but in general this is how most woman would associate it. There are many types of ways that you can please your woman & it follows this model: Foreplay, Teasing, The Act of Sex Itself & After-play. Let's begin.

FOREPLAY: Foreplay is what can make or break the entire relationship. If you want your relationship to be built on trust, honesty & love, foreplay is a must to keep the relationship interesting. If your looking for a quick lay, throw this out the window because you are looking for a booty call. Continuing with the subject of foreplay, one must learn the proper way of the foreplay model, which can and, most of the time, always include these 3 things: Role playing, sensuality & sensation.

a) RolePlaying, as the name suggests, is the art of dressing up & or acting as different personas. This not only allows for the flow of creativity, it also keeps the relationship interesting.

b) Sensuality is the art of being sensual. In short, it is the ability to create a feeling through certain conduct. For example, kissing. Kissing is the most basic form of sensuality. It is a form of physical connection that doesn't require much effort & yet it still makes you feel like your breath was taken away. Another form of sensuality is kissing/biting/licking the neck, running the hands the back/sides & kissing behind the ear.

c) Sensation is the overall feeling that you get from the experience itself. The most satisfying feeling is knowing that, at that point, you are both are on the same page when it comes to feeling the same way on a level that only you both can feel.

TEASING: Teasing is one of the funnest ways to keep your partner guessing. It goes anywhere from running a rose down your partner's chest to midsection to kissing in those more "sensitive" areas. This ability may sound simple and straight-forward but it is much more than you initially think. There are certain criteria that you need to meet in order to successfully pull this off. For example, kissing. Simple, right? Well, the thing about it is that there is more to it. The questions of How & Where must be brought into consideration, meaning How to Kiss & Where I Should Kiss is the difference between something being bland & listless to being exciting & lustful. You want to have your partner biting her lip, moaning & gasping before the actual sexual act. By finding the areas of her body that are the most vulnerable in terms of sensitivity, you will fully be able to pleasure her before the act of pleasure. If she is vulnerable on her neck, kiss it in a way that positions you perfectly for a firm yet gentle bite. Don't be afraid to get a little creative. Use the same technique on that area just under the collarbone on her chest or use the same technique on her thigh.

THE ACTUALSEXUAL ACT: After one masters the art of teasing, the actual act of sex itself will be much more than you possibly could've imagined. There is no better way to end a session of teasing than making your girl feel like the queen than sexing her like a slut. Here is the logic behind that: A woman is a queen, no matter where you are or who you are. In the ancient city of Kemet (or Egypt as the history books calls it), women ruled. In those times, power may have been feared but it was found to be sexy for others. Some people don't understand that even the most powerful women have urges & that when they get that first good encounter, they can't help but to want more even if it means that they hold their standards high for the next person. The theme that I'm getting at here is the fact that there is no right or wrong way to please your partner but their is an effective & ineffective way to please your partner. If you can't hold her interest at the beginning, you are gonna lose her interest altogether. A person who cannot communicate both physically & mentally are going to become unresponsive & non-receptive to any other aspect of the relationship.

AFTER-PLAY: After-play, just to put it straight-forward, is the act of making sure that your partner has a relaxing shower or masage after making her knees weak or making her a hot beverage after her throat is sore from all the screaming. After-play is the moment when you both come together & fall asleep after the immense amount of sexual pleasure that you just gave each other. Your face is sticky from her & she is laying down with a swollen body part (I will leave that up to your imagination).

In short, sexual healing is the physical aspect to a good relationship. The communication may be there before all of this happens because a connection has alreasy been made emotionally but if you add a good physical connection to the mix, you are going to have yourself one hell of a relationship.