How To Treat A Real Woman

Her True Essence & What It Means

You may ask yourself, "A woman's true essence? What are you talking about?" Let me break it down for you.

A woman's true essence isn't one that can be experienced but can be seen. However. it is by means of what you know is there but can't be immediately seen. They are 3 main things: The heart, the mind and the spirit. They breakdown like this:

The Heart: A woman's heart is something that should never be played with & put on a shelf like it is some kind of rejected piece of work. It is a piece of art that, just like a painting in an art gallery, has many different feelings but they all have one thing in common: They are delicate. No matter how hard a woman think she is or how hard she says she is, she only feels that way because someone has treated her to the point where her heart was shattered to the point where she wanted to find refuge in other things, whether it be productive or otherwise. A woman's heart is a rose that blooms as she develops feelings & makes them into something magnificent. Once a woman develops feelings, she become a flower that, if not properly taken care of, will result in the depetaling of that beautiful flower.

The Mind: When they say that a mind is a terrible thing to waste, they were not kidding. This references to all of the most influential women that this world has to & had to offer (i.e. Marie Curie, Mary McLeod Bethune, Harriet Tubman, Sojourner Truth, Rosa Parks, etc.) These women developed their sharp minds in times when society was a dull entity. It not only denied women their rights to live as equals, it denied their existence as human beings.

The Spirit: There is nothing much to say except strong, powerful, resilient. Those are just some ways that can't even begin to describe it. It is also, however, very fragile. The slightest nick in the spirit (i.e. the slightest physical to slightest mental abuse) will make the entire woman's structure crumble. This is why many woman seek refuge from the people that they "truly love" or things that are their "only friend", creating problems anywhere from trust issues to insecurities, making it that much harder, if not near impossible, for them to realize what is real/true and what is not. Trying to convince those that have been lied & deceived to and have been taken advantage of that you are real is difficult, if not impossible, to do because of the hurt, the pain and the emotionally destructive path that they have been on for a long time. The best way to show how real you are is to actually show how real you are. It is not only more effective than just saying you are, it shows that you are patient, you are kind & you are willing to put in the work for the one you love/care about and, most importantly, that you are there for them through all the negativity and nay-saying.

A woman's true essence is not measured by what she looks like but by who she is as a person and not as something you can throw away and forget about.