tw: vent , racist remark (?) , joking about death , bodyshaming (?)
"if you don't stop crying I will call _____ and tell her she can't come because you can't get your life together" - ( said to me when i was having trouble making my bed )
"your building a wall in the freezer at this point" - ( said to me when i was having trouble finding room in the freezer for groceries) ( racist remark? )
"I don't care if you die"
^ "it was a joke, couldn't you tell?"
"stop snacking on things! you look like your getting big!" - ( bodyshaming ? )
"how do you think the littles feel if they saw you crying for no reason?"
"Oh my god, your so dramatic" - ( said to me when i wanted to buy a bunny hat but got denied even though its my money )
these are things that my dad has said to me (theres more but i can't rlly remember them at this very moment) I am so tired of crying because of things he said
but however keep in mind he was raised strictly by my oma and has OCD ( his type of OCD is i believe Cleaning/contamination )
am I over reacting ?