I've been dating tj for five months now, I l he's been cheating butt I'm not sure, I don't want to accuse him of cheating then he's not . . through out our whole relationship within these five months he he's cheated on me 3 times , i know I might be dumb for it but I love him .. That's my baby. .jay's mad at me because I know tj cheated on me but I just can't leave him.. It's hard to let him go . .