-He threatens to leave you
-He has no social skills so he'd rather talk to his rats
-He's good at ignoring you
-Tunes you out
-He always says you think he's not good enough
-He will manipulate you into staying with him
-He uses being alone for years as an excuse for being toxic
-He always flips it around and says your the one who's toxic
-You'll get into heated fights often
-You both will fight about almost anything
-He calls you useless
-He says he's better without you then manipulates you to stay after