Finally I Get You (男人使用手册) [Men's User Manual]

Introduction

What is a man?

Is he a tree that can shield from the wind and rain, or a cloud that forever wanders? Is he the shoulder you can rely on when you're helpless, or the chest you can lean on when you're lonely? Is he the corner you can never escape from your whole life, or the season that brings you scars?

Opening the vast pages of history, how many men have commanded the winds and clouds, unstoppable and proud? How many heroes have been troubled and confused by love, and how many heartless men have borne the curses of eternity?

More and more people fail to understand whether men are strong or fragile, romantic or rogue. The "Men's User Manual" clearly provides the answer:

A man is clay that dissolves upon contact with water, tea that needs to be steeped before tasting, steel that bends rather than breaks, a stubborn donkey, or a weighty book.

A man is neither angel nor demon; he is a person with flesh, blood, and emotions. A man may be flirtatious but remembers his responsibilities and duties; he values sex but needs affection more; he lies but keeps his promises; he is arrogant but also rational and composed.

A man always harbors his own secrets. In the face of love, marriage, success, and failure, he has his own principles. Most men living in reality are dancers with shackles on their souls. Their smiles sometimes conceal tears, their strength is sometimes a facade. They offer all their glory to others, often masking a fragile heart.

Don't say you don't understand a man's actions. In truth, a man's unique behavior has its inherent logic and reasons. Whether good or bad, right or wrong, these habits and actions reveal a man's true nature.

I hope this user manual for men will lead you to truly enter a man's world, get close to his heart, and simply and genuinely understand his essence.

This Book is also known in English as: Men's User Manual