Should I (well R5 in this story) start using things in spankings? Like belts, paddles, icy hot (also called heat rub or hot rub) during time out, etc or should it stay how it is with them just using their hands? Also, what should I do to improve my writing because I know it's terrible... (I got my phone for 5 minutes so I'm posting this question, then I'll be back to updating regular chapters maybe on Ryland's birthday or a day or two after his birthday, it depends on when I get my phone back for longer than 5 minutes .-.)