A: 'Guess what! He asked for my homework assignment!'
B: 'Oh my gosh! He is totally into you!'
Just stay away, I repeat, stay the hell away from such people.
Here I am giving a Golden Rule for friendship (Though there should not be such rules but still).
If a friend agrees with you at everything - Change the friend.
And if disagrees with everything -
Change the friend.
Excess of something is bad and absence is bad too.
Sticking back to the topic. Crushes are like accidents, they can happen anytime, anywhere. Just the person appears amd the sanity & sensibility disappears. With them goes our natural talent of judging other's character.
I would just say kiss with one eye open. (know what I mean?) Give it time to relax and settle. And then if the respect you deserve has not disintegrated or decreased with time well shut them eyes -_-
But don't forget to install a CCTV. I mean you never know.
After reading this some of you may think that I am being cynic. But people open your eyes and look around you. For once Love yourself & be practical.
Dear parents, if they approach you with stories of some crazy crush. Don't crash it or try to stop them because it will only lead them in the wrong direction even more. The thing you'll tell them not to do will be done first. So don't bother. Be all ears and smiles when they share. Then drop by few clues like, 'He/she sounds like good at studies.'
'He/she asked for your homework assignment, Didn't they do it on their own?'
' What kind of company does he/she keep?'
Remember parents your main focus should be on pointing the obvious about the crush not trying to force your thoughts on them. 'My friend know his/her parents. Told me he/she is trouble.'
Saying things like these will make them think that you are against this whole idea of them being with their crush and hence they will avoid sharing it with you in future. Try to be objective and oh-not-so-obvious.
Dear teens, Love exists but so does the risk factor. So why not cover the risks first and give it time. Falling for someone is not once in a blue moon. If the person is right for you, they will make you fall with them again and again and again.
Pace of nature is patience.
That's all for now
Signing off
Megha
