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A man knows what a woman should "bring to the table".

He doesn't need to ask her that question. I think it's a childish question laced with sprinkles of "superiority" complex.

It's the same way a man feels insulted if a woman calls him "broke".

If he's broke, he's broke & that means he has to also work hard to "bring something to the table".

Back to my main point..

You'll know what a woman brings to the table when you start dating her & vice versa.

When unmatured men started seeing money that feel asking a lady such. question means he has "arrived".

What a woman brings to the table can't actually be quantified & it's vast.

But a man's own can be quantified. It's what you give that you'll receive.

As the provider of the home, one can tell your pocket size by the way your family lives.

The school your children attend, the house you live in, the car you drive (sometimes) etc.

Who actually sees what your wife does? But she's your wife. She's everywhere doing different things to run your home.

A lot of things you don't & can't see but you're seeing results & you're proud of her.

So, what specific answers are you expecting her to give you when you ask her what she "brings to the table?"

She's your "slut", she's your cook, she's your cleaner, she's your adviser, she's the mother of your children, she's your accountant, she's your spy, etc? You, what are you doing? Bring money & make sure your children are disciplined.

I know you work hard to make money but that's your duty. And better do it well because your role is what will determine how well your wife will play hers.

Yours is independent & hers is dependent. That's why you must date intentionally & when you do, all these questions would be needless.

You'll see it. No one will tell you.

If you don't see it, then walk away. Her mother should've taught & guided her better, because these things are default settings for women.

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