1. You can go to parties, just tell me where it is so I can get you if I need to
2. Don't want you to drink until ur at least 16 but if you are, please make sure it's around an adult I trust like a friend of mine or your aunties, uncles etc (yes grandparents count if my mother gives you wine, you're her problem, not mine)
3. You can tell me anything, don't keep things a secret from me, trust is everything
4. You can date anyone except for assholes and people who don't respect your boundaries
5. You get to choose if you want to be homeschooled or go to public school
6. Basic rule, don't be an asshole
7. Dress however the fuck you want, if ur a boy and you want a dress, tell me and we can go dress shopping etc
8. You have to buy your own phone, I'm not getting you one till you're at least 13, a childhood without technology is a fantastic childhood (I should know)
9. You will be raised as a they/them until you tell us what pronouns you want to use, if you wanna stay as a they/them that is fine with me
10. Treat people the way you wanna be treated (in other words TPWK)
11. Basic rule, don't do drugs
12. If you wanna throw a party please ask first, your other mother and I can go somewhere else while the party is happening but please ask to throw one
13. Last rule, you only live once so do whatever you wanna do
I think these rules are pretty reasonable
please do tell me which rule you like best, idky I wanna know but I do apparently
