if you ask me to describe love, i'll tell you about ruben ghifari.
ruben was never on my mind. ruben is that annoying type of guy who sent me pictures and videos of his activities that i DID NOT asked, he's that kind of person who would aggressively text you from the moment you JUST started talking. either way, he's such a funny guy, easy to talk to, he's goofy, he talks to me like im his bro, he likes to joke most of the times, it is cheering though. you could say he's mean but i think he's just more upfront about things. one minute he can be such a d1ck, and the other he can be the sweetest and nicest guy ever.
talking to him is never awkward. he's good at carrying conversation. you could hear him mumbling about this and that on and on. which honestly makes me feel intimidated at first because he talks louder and faster than i do. he's just like a walking radio, he even claimed it himself.
our first actual met wasn't very date alike. it was never meant to be a date, though. we both know it was just a friendly hangout.
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at that time, there are some things i assumed about him. he's very talkative, freak, attractive in a way, likes to overshared things, narcissistic, self-centered, talks inappropriately about things that shouldn't have been said to a new person, opinionated, and arrogant. those superiority aura that comes from the way he talks, the way he walks, the way he raised his voice, the way he stares at others, the way he's so opinionated, and a lot more. bet all of us knew it already. however, ruben has so many ideas, knows what he wanna pursue. not afraid to speak too much, too loud and too honest. as if he didn't care about anyones around. he lives in his own world, has his own style, speak his own language, and not afraid of expressing himself, literally.
at Pamera Coffee i was stuck with him in the rain. thought about making an excuse to leave him alone but since we went there together, there's nothing i can do. wishing the time would passed by quickly was my only hope.
we ended up talking randomly for hours about only us knows what. all of the talks was mostly nonsense i'd say. we mostly talked about everyone around us more than we talked about ourselves. fair enough, we weren't on a date anyway. but in spite of that nonsense talks, not to mention, of course his opinionated ass did gave me a speech before we went home. i can still recall what it was about. i know what he meant or where it's about to go.
