Be yourself

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Okay, I am the creative funny, expressive girl on here even to totaly new poeple that are fans of mine. But in real life Im only like that around my best friends ( see my book " my friends" ) I'm shy around poeple that I don't know and poeple I have a crush on or feel uncomfortable ( like wanting to crawl under a rock) around. I'm always better online like this and like other things on my DSI! but in my mini course at school ( study skills) with a teacher on red wolves team ( my team) and in that class a boy I have a crush on ( a sixth grader) is in it I feel embarrassed and afraid of messing up around him. So, I have decided that I'll use these simple steps to help because I know how hard it is to come out of a nutshell situation like this-hard and scary- so I'll try it too.

1. confidence boosts

tell your self I am me I am pretty I am great I'm myself repeat encouraging words like that over again in your head

ask your friends to tell you the good things about yourself

write I'm wonderful on a peice of paper 50 times

2. coming out first time

try raising your hand in class

talk to poeple you rarely ever talk to

smile during presentations

even try possibly doing a talent show when your school has it and hold sleepovers

3. next step of coming out

talk more often

help poeple like your neighbors if they don't understand what your doing in school

maybe even -i would- talk to your crush

4. give a presentation

smile at it

look confident

don't doubt yourself try to avoid eye contact with poeple

5. you are ready to call yourself confident-beginner level

express your inner self

be creative

be you not me or her or him

I went all counceler for a minute ther :b anyway if you want more info I'll make a book on it only if I get at least 3 requests for it

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