Let's directly get to solutions...
First: GO TO DIFFERENT PLACES
School is not the only place to be happy enough with your frnds
Socialize more.Keep your heart open for everyone and in this phase pls don't judge anyone real quick.
Go to places other then school.
Various Classes like tuitions,Dance class,Instrumental class,Karate etc.
Go to public libraries and study cafes nearby and try socializing
If you have a playground in your building then pls first go there and have a walk just sit there reading a novel in your hand or find some frnd group and socialize start playing with them randomly
Online frnds:I don't really recommend this But many ppl say online frnds are the best ones but tbh it's risky still you can try.
Catchup with your old frnds if you have their contacts
Or yeah ...Mostly ppl are open in chats so you can try approaching your classmates in chats.
Second: BE BUSY!
When you are busy,you don't have time for anyone actually and you don't even remember that you are lonely or something because you have a lot to do already and you can't tolerate anything shit in your life...
Learn new things you have so much of time for yourself
Be productive set your goals focus on them
Be consistent too...
Make your days count and don't count your days
There is a lot to do in your life a lot to learn a lot to work upon a lot to experience...
Third: PUSH YOURSELF
In this phase you will feel uninterested in everything like literally everything
You won't do anything and just keep lying on your bed.
So push yourself
Do things you don't feel to do
Anything challenging...anything that helps you work
Exercise , study, walk
Literally anything but just do something don't sit idol at all
Fourth: CONTROLL YOUR SLEEP SCHEDULE
You will either sleep too much or won't sleep if depression takes controll
So... create a proper sleep schedule
If you sleep whole day off and do nothing at the end of the day you ll feel more useless and regret.Don't live life in regrets. Live in success
If you don't sleep you will get exhausted and do nothing...
So it's all waste of time either ways so create a sleep schedule of atleast proper 8 hours at night and take breaks in between your work.
Fifth: IT'S OKAYY TO TAKE A BREAK
If you are just too tired of everyone and everything take a gap of a month and spend it however you like.
But remember here you are not in a work mode you are just energising yourself back
Listen to your stupid thoughts feel what you want to or whatever you are feeling
Do crazy things which can make you happy
Figure out yourself
After a month get back to your routine
Sixth: STAY AWAY FROM SOCIAL MEDIA
pls this will only make you feel that ppl are having fun with their frnds and you are just watching them.
You ll feel worse
So stay away from social media till you are good enough on your own track and ready to go for your schedule
So what exactly to do ?
There are many things let's look in next chapter.
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