It's been so common for other people to comment on someone body for fun. But It's not at all fun guys. Only the person who is being pointed known how they feel to be bullied like that.
Especially body shamed by your own parents and friends is worst. They didn't even know that they are doing it. Like friends making a joke on how you like and it may be a normal joke for them and then if we point out it as body Shaming they give a lame excuse like " it's just for fun dude, why are even making it big? Learn to be cool" this words do nothing but hurt that person who is body shammed by their friends and also that friends are even justifying it as if it is not a big deal.
Also other example of body Shaming I personally saw was done by many parents. Yes, own parents do that will definitely break them. Parents telling them that "you are being too fat, if you continue be like this, then you will become a burden on us because it will difficult for us to get a partner for u" this is the reality.
Being fit makes you healthy and being fit doesn't mean being slim with perfect structure. No guys definitely your body structure doesn't define fitness. Many of people facing problems like this that even after eating so less will be looking chubby whereas the person who eats so much is being thin.
Your body structure and weight
doesn't determine your fitness, your intelligence, your compatability completely. Being overweight become common problem and reasons may be due to their inheritance issues and food habits etc.
No one have right to point others body and comment on them. Never forget if you are pointing one finger to others all the other four fingers are pointing towards yourself only.
Beauty lies in your soul. It lies in your smile. It lies in success. Never let any one words stop you from moving forward. Show them what you are not by words by your success by your actions.
You are beautiful the way you are guys. Don't ruin your health by not eating by time and doing over exercise, stressing your mind physically and mentally for reducing your weight.
Eat good food. Do excercise to let your health fit. Work on yourself and your career to achieve success. Don't listen to voices that's wants to pull you down, that tries to degrade you. Don't pity yourself guys, no matter what you other say be it your own parents, relatives or friends may be strangers too.
Don't let anyone degrade you in any way. Love yourself the way you are. Look into the mirror and say that I am beautiful the way I am.
You are here to live your life, to let your soul grow, to develop your mindset, your spirituality, your personality and your career not for entertaining other words and believes.
Believe in what you are, accept the what you are, work on what believe, you can lead a life that can make all the others mouths shut.
Believe in being a beautiful soul that spreads love and kindness not just a beautiful body that spread negativity. If you believe in yourself, rest the others shuts.
Be proud on what you are and what you become.
Feel free to share your experiences and opinions on this.
- Harry
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