The Desire, The Regrets And The Stories

The life you have

Being born of whichever caliber is not the reason for what you are ... Caliber can be of the young , old ,rich , poor , single , broken ,monogamy or polygamous background ... It's all been planned !
My 29 years on Earth so far has been such a platform for learning , lots of regrets , shady past and achievement of which you could say so but it is ... You never know until you see those you left behind.

From what I have learnt so far , every single lady should value what they have , screw who left you, what happened to you and who stood by you ... Be content you still have one life to live and you are living it ...
I sometimes loose value for life and pray for death ... Yes it's heart breaking but it is what it is ... When depression sets in , when you look around you and you seem to still remain same , when you failed countless and you look like failure itself and when you see what wrong decision you made and it's implications you... You prefer life to go out of you than you leaving life for Death ...

Nigeria is a great country I must say
, Rich in culture , values and traditions ... We Nigerians are uniquely blessed in all that is natural yet it is not balanced at all , too many levels to cross and battles yet to be fought... Sometimes the girl child is always expected to be perfect right from birth , you are being prepared right from the day you were born , from the moulding of your ass till you are married ! When a single lady with so much potential wants the best for herself or expects more since she has put in the work , she is seen as an opportunist ... Yet we have this life ...
My advise on this life :
• Live like you don't own your tomorrow...
• Eat what you want and keep crumbs for Tomorrow
• your life is important sweetie , keep trusting God and grateful for life
• life matters no matter what
• Don't forget to pray for each day , no matter how bad it gets you are living dearest sis and it's just that day
•keep wrapping yourself in each day and see yourself , just you soaring in the smallest , littliest and thinnest way possible ... With time you will catch up
• single is no fun if your life is not fun

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