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rant

-> old rant from 2023, i'd thought i'd keep this

so, i saw a hate video on changbin where some moa's didn't like the fact that him and yeonjun are friends. i saw this on instagram and sent it to my friend and we started pouring our hearts out.

here are some things which we have talked about. the numbering and topics don't matter.

1) Society -> i wish that the whole fucking kpop community can just get along with each other and stop being up in each other's throats. it's extremely annoying to see arguments and hate comments on every video and most posts i see. one example are some blinks and armys. they are so competitive, like wth? let the two groups breathe and stop bothering them with ur stupid fights. they're literally fighting out of nowhere.

people are just toxic nowadays and i swear society is getting worse day by day, tbh social media is to blame. people be so consumed by the drama happening in famous celebrities and idols' lives that they go too far to get the least amount of drama to gossip about.

it's honestly sickening atp

2) Competition, Jealousy -> fandoms keep fighting about who are the 4th gen leaders or best group in the whole kpop industry. i don't think there's a point in arguing about something so small unless it's considering an important event but it's best to have none at all.

toxic kpop stans shld stop acting like fucking children and man up. like you don't own the place, do you? no one is in the right to decide who is better than who. i cannot go on with my day in peace without seeing at least seeing an argument in the comments. i really want to tell them to shut the hell up.

it's horrible how bad the community has become bcs of all these awards and beliefs that the group they stan should deserve everything. can you like, shut up and give others a chance? okay, i get it that you're proud but if you go to the extent that you send hate to someone then it's— just stop.

3) Comparison -> stop comparing your favourite groups to others you may not like. stay in your lane and don't cause other people problems bcs of your shenanigans. why cant they just agree that all groups are different and special in their own way? why can't they appreciate them for who they are and stop comparing them to others?

they debuted for a reason and it was definitely not to create wars between fandoms or have people hate on them. they worked so hard to get here only to be thrown into the ocean with hate and insults. they just want to entertain others and potentially help and make fans' lives better with their music and videos. every group has come so far in their journey only to see fights between their fandoms.

4) Hate to look 'cool' -> some haters and toxic fans hate on idols to gain attention, followers and to seem cool. let me tell you that whatever they're doing is stupid, harmful and seriously disgusting. you send hurtful messages and emojis, threats and insults in hopes of being recognised but for what? if it's for a bad cause then just stfu. you want to gain attention, do it without hurting someone both physically and mentally; or emotionally.

like bro, what the hell did they even do to you to make you hate them so much? i started stanning skz bcs of their personalityand bond and they're the sweetest people i know. they don't deserve the hate and need all the support they can get and this applies to all groups and celebrities out there.

like you go all out to support this one group and then become disappointed that another group won an award instead of them, thus inflicting harm to the other group bcs of that. shouldn't you be proud that they at least worked hard and congratulate the other group on their win?

what the fuck happened? everything was fine back then. just look at how it's become, it's like getting bullied in school but 100x worse.

5) Know your limits -> haters should know their boundaries and limits. you shouldn't even hate someone for no reason for starters but they really have gone too far. idols have feelings too so stop treating them like a fucking object and treat them like real and living people!

going too far is going to the extent that you mess up with one's mentality, sending death threats and encouraging suicide while attacking them with lasers and insults. this means not to fucking hurt them in any way possible and keep a low profile. u can have ur own opinions but if negative when the person has done nothing wrong, then keep it to your own self.

everything and everyone shld stop before someone ends up in a hospital or their death bed due to stress and the overwhelming amount of hate their receiving. i really don't want to bring this up but we alr lost a precious jem recently, moonbin, as he supposedly committed suicide due to hate. i'm so sorry for bringing this up.

in conclusion, haters and toxic stans have gone too far to the extent of harming innocent people.

one example is the one where chan got pointed at by the laser. what if he actually got seriously hurt, huh? you wouldn't want that to happen to you now, don't you? you wouldn't want a loved one to get blinded by a laser just bcs someone was too blinded by jealousy and hatred, right?

6) Put yourself in idol's shoes -> if i was an idol or celebrity, i'd definitely not want to see fights breaking out in the comment sections or come across edits that show hate towards other groups. haters and toxic stans shld put themselves in idol's shoes and see if they appreciate the hate. obviously they wouldn't like that too, don't they?

it's like a cycle. you become famous, get appreciated and then hated on and then you'll nvr live peacefully knowing that you're constantly being bothered with threats and hate while ur fans r fighting with other fans bcs of jealousy

i'm grateful that there are still people with wonderful hearts and souls but shit has been getting worse recently.

i'm mostly scared and worried for han rn. he needs help and i really want to just jump into my screen and hug him when i see his sad expression. i really miss his smile and i'm glad he's slowly healing. however, all the hate and threats are seriously super concerning and i don't want to have an idea of losing anyone from skz. like what if that hater lost their loved one? wouldn't feel too good now, won't they?

haters shld stop what they're doing and get a fucking life and grip on reality. the world doesn't revolve around you, you're not the main character out of all 8 billion people in this world. stop wasting ur time  and start on your own journey, focus on your own path and stop sticking ur noses into other's businesses.

we can't do anything about it but mass email jyp and send positive messages onto every post, taking over the negative comments and reporting every single one we see. it's not like we can get to know what happens behind the cameras and help them through whatever situation they're in. i want to console them with words of encouragement and support, tell them that it's okay and hug them till my last breath.