Big sis pep talk

Someone's gossiping about me...

1. Remember, nobody happy and content with their lives would ever talk down on someone else. People who are content are making moves to become a better person. They radiate with high vibrational energy and are secure in who they are.

People with low vibrational energy are insecure, and project those insecurities on other people to make themselves feel better, but remember, that satisfaction is only temporary.
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2. People who gossip about other people 100% talk about their "bffs". If they talk about people in groups and always giggle and whisper, realize if they had any dirt on any of their friends, they would turn their back on them.

Don't think for one second that these people who gossip have some sort of strong bond with each other. The only reason they're actually friends is because nobody else can put up with how often they talk about others.
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No matter how "perfect" you are, people will always talk bad about you. We've all seen the nicest people in school. Always dressed, homework always done, popular and kind to everyone. And we've also heard other people talk about them.

One thing we need to realize is that no matter how perfect and kind we are, there will always be people who are jealous, nosy, and don't understand you in general. Or maybe they simply don't like you. It's not your job to figure out why they don't like you.
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4. Keep calm and cool. Let your actions speak for you. No matter how much they try and taint your image, keep your head up high and be yourself. Don't bother or worry about it. When people see who you really are, they begin to doubt the rumors and slander made about you. Remember to project kindness and good energy.

Good karma and bad karma comes back to everyone. Be outgoing, positive and protect your energy.
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They only make fun of people to feel better about themselves because they have low self esteem.
Data shows that most people gossip or talk about others to make themselves feel better. This links with projection. When people have insecurities, they tend to talk bad about others that showcase their insecurities.

For example, if my insecurity was having a big nose, one way I would project would be to make fun of others with big noses because it makes me feel better about myself. With projection, you can learn a lot about other people. What they're insecure about, how they make fun of other people, what their main goal is when they gossip.
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-A🌟