Skip a few days
Ben ; knock knock
I look up
Tegan : hey what are u doing here
Ben ; i said i would come visit
Tegan ; really didn't have to
Ben ; i know but i wanted to thought I'd give u a couple day and then visit
Tegan: thank u
Ben ; i brought u some goodsHe opens the bag pulls out a bar of chocolate grapes and some crackers
Ben ; by the looks of it you've got plenty snacks but now u have more
Tegan ; thank u
Ben ; thats ok how u feeling
Tegan: not amazing I'm just in this cycle at the minute i wake up I'm in pain i get given pain relief and it just knocks me out and then i wake up hours later fine and then i take make pain relief and I'm out again .
Ben ; really
Tegan ; yh thats how i spent my past couple days
Ben : so part of the cycle are u in right now
Tegan ; so I've waken up in pain had pain relief and it knock me out and now I've woken up again .
Ben ; so you'll have more pain relief and get knocked out again soon
Tegan : yh
Ben ; I'll make the most of the awake u
Tegan ; u do that
Ben ; no vistors today
Tegan ; its my parents wedding anniversary today they came by the this morning and i had to beg them to go out and atchully do something today.
Ben ; well u got me for today
Tegan ; thank u
Ben ; plus i got nothing better to do
Tegan ; i see how it is
Ben ; oh shut up u know what i mean
Tegan; nah if u had anything planned u wouldn't have come i see how it is
Ben ; stop it i was gonna come here
Tegan : mmm
Ben ; do u need anything
Tegan ; I'm ok
Ben ; are u sure
Tegan : yes
Ben ; ok is the toilet threw there
Tegan : yh...oh wait wait if your going to the toilet in my wash bag theres my lip balm can u get it please
Ben ; so much for not needing anything
Tegan ; makes sence if your going
Ben ; yes i will get your lip balm
Tegan : thank uHe gets up going to the bathroom and i slowly pull my up in the bed and then grab the remote for the bed and i make it go up a little bit .
Tegan ; ah
I put the remote down and i close my eyes for a second
Ben ; lip balm
Tegan : thank uHe hands my lip balm and i put some on
Ben ; do u know how the other person the person u gave your kidney to
Tegan ; no
Ben ; do u know the person
Tegan: no sadly not i wish i did but no
Ben : so was it just a donation
Tegan : uh I'll give u short version
Ben ; ok
Tegan; i was put up for adoption when i was born and i got adopted and all that anyway fast foward 20 years biological mum gets in contact makes it seem like she wants to get to know me . Turns out she has a daughter who needed a kidney transplant so she askes me to get tested so i do and i was a match . So i donated my kidney to my sister who I've never met
Ben ; was not expecting that
Tegan ; yh
Ben ; so your biological mum just wanted u to get tested
Tegan : yh its the only reason she wanted to meet me
Ben ; fucking hell
Tegan ; oh well
Ben ; and she hasn't like come to cheak on u or anything
Tegan ; well she said she wasn't going to tell her daughter i existed so i basically said i didn't want to see her again .
Ben : thats fair enough not wanting to see her again
Tegan : yh
Ben ; so the daughter i guess your sister she doesn't know about u at all
Tegan ; apparently not
Ben ; who dose she think is donating the kidney
Tegan ; oh god knows but oh well
Ben ; i don't kmow if i could of gone along with the surgery
Tegan ; i have thought process of it all thats why i went along with it
Ben ; fair enough
Tegan ; yh anyway u talk
Ben : me talk
Tegan ; u like talking
Ben ; oh i really do
Tegan ; so talk away
Ben ; probably bore u
Tegan ; why would u bore
Ben ; I'll probably talk about rubbish
Tegan : talk about rubbish cause i am feeling pain and i need a distractuon
Ben ; do u need me to get someone
Tegan ; no all i need to do is push this button and i will all the pain relief i need but as soon as i push it give it a couple minutes i will be out cold .
Ben ; just press it
Tegan; no u came to see me i don't want to sleep
Ben ; tegan press itI press the bjttond
Ben ; i can come back and see u another time
Tegan : no please don't waste your time in here
Ben ; I'm not wasting my time i genuinely want to see u
Tegan ; why
Ben ; because when u go home when will we will see each other again
Tegan: true
Ben ; do u think you'll be coming here
Tegan ; probably not...but I'll come for u
Ben ; i feel special
Tegan: do cause it will be just for u
Ben ; well i say once your fully recoverd u come back and make a proper time of it . U come to a game u watch us win and all that
Tegan ; I'll be down for that
Ben ; then we will make a plan of it
Tegan: sounds good to me and when ever u can u come to me i show u around
Ben ; yh u can show me around but trust I'll make an effort to come to u
Tegan ; summer
Ben: summer , summer is so far away u trying to say something hereI let out a little laugh
Tegan : no
Ben ; mhm
Tegan ; fine come before summer i only said then because u get a break then
Ben ; i get a couple days off here and there
Tegan: wouldn't u prefer to see your family
Ben ; i see my family why do u always have something to sayI look at him
Ben ; most quiet I've seen u
Tegan ; shut up
Ben ; see always something to sayI lightly hit his arm
Ben : now u hit me
Tegan : sorryHe rubs his arm
Ben ; that hurt
Tegan ; i am so sorryI rub his arm and he puts his hand on mine
Ben ; thank u
Tegan : never knew a little tap would hurt
Ben ; oh it hurt so much
Tegan ;well i am so sorry
Ben ; thank uI move my hand and i slowly make myself lay down
Ben ; tired
Tegan : yh
Ben ; do u want me to go
Tegan : no
Ben ; see u were like u don't need to be here now u don't want me to leave make your mind up
Tegan ; do what u want
Ben ; I'll stay for a bit longer and then I'll let u sleep
Tegan ; ok
Ben ; i recon tomrrow u should watch my game
Tegan : how
Ben ; can i use your ipad quick
Tegan : go ahead but if my dad comes and sees me watching I'm dead
Ben ; make sure hes not aroundHe takes my ipad and i watch what he dose
Ben ; there go on the sky app and the game will be there
Tegan ; ok
Ben ; don't have to watch
Tegan : if my dads around then i won't if he isn't then i will watch what i can
Ben ; great game
Tagan ; confident
Ben ; gotta be
Tegan : i guess
Ben ; yh right I'll play the game then come see u
Tegan : really
Ben ; yh
Tegan ; mmm ok
Ben ; yh early kick off so I'll be here 3 maybe 4
Tegan ; only if u want to
Ben ; i do
Tegan ; ok
Ben ; right as i will be here tomorrow to annoy u i will let u sleep now
Tegan: okHe stands up
Ben ; are u sure u don't need or want anything before we go
Tegan: i am all good I'm ready to sleep
Ben ; ok are u sure
Tegan : go
Ben ; ok ok I'll see u tomrrow
Tegan : see u tomrrowHe walks out and i lower then bed and i went straight to sleep
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