My Grindr stories

Little about myself

I am a 23 year old Indian guy living in Canada. Since India is further subdivided into states, and people from each state differ vastly from each other, I would further classify myself as a Rajasthani. Someone from Rajasthan.

I'm a 5'7" guy, with an average weight of 73 kg. It keeps changing from 65 to 76. But you can picture me as 73. I have a very average body and a decent looking face. Which I wish I could share, but I can't. I have body hair, not in extreme, but in all the areas you imagine body hairs to be in a regular person. I have thought of removing them, and I actually trimmed my chest and stomach once. But the after effect was too uncomfortable, so I don't. I like my public hairs and maintain their growth. So if someone goes down on me, they will find a nice trimmed garden than a bush. Shaving them completely feels weird to me for some reason. But I always make sure to ask the other person if he's fine with that before meeting.

As for some other features, I have brown skin, with black hair. My style is usually messy or buzz. I have a light beard. Brown eyes. People say I look cute, I hope they are right. To me, I just look average.

Now that I have done telling about my physical features (you can ask anything more if you want.), I should share some bits about me as a person, so you guys can better understand the decisions that I will take in coming chapters.

So basically, I'm a very introverted kind of a guy who really enjoys watching movies and reading novels. Growing up in india, I really didn't have much encounter with gay or queer culture, and quite honestly never even knew two guys could love each other until I was 13. Being raised in a conservative family, I still shy away when talking about sex.

Grindr was one of the few things that introduced me to the gay lifestyle in India. I had an on and off relationship with grindr. I used to go online and look who was around. I used to talk to all kinds of people. There were mostly uneducated tops with only two things to text. First 'Hi', and second 't or b'.

I wanted to meet someone in person, but things never matched. I was afraid who the other person might turn out to be. So my grindr adventure in India remained unfulfilled. Just made some friends thats all.

When I turned 19 and decided to move to Canada for studies, I could finally explore the queer culture better. After coming here is when I finally had my first grinder encounter. I will share it in the next chapter, which is coming soon. Till then, have a great time. Bye.