My Grindr stories

Late night fun

It had been 4 months since I came to Canada. As a 19-year-old working student from India, I was well adjusted by then. I used to attend my classes three days a week, and on the rest, I used to work. I had my own private room for which I was lucky since it's hard to find one on a student budget in a city like Vancouver. Although I can't say I was able to use it very well.

Using grindr and talking to so many people for so long, I was finally comfortable to finally meet someone, but I was too scared to invite them to my place. Especially when I had friends living downstairs. So, I was looking for someone who had a place to host.

Although there are a lot of guys on grindr who ping you with place, very few remain by the time your likes and interests match. And since I was, or I say, still am a shy indian guy, meeting a foreigner was a no-no. I was looking for an Indian guy, not far from my age, who would be interested in side fun and not be looking for anal cause I didn't want to explore there yet.

I already had some picks by now as a potential candidate with whom I had been chatting for some time on grindr. It was just the issue of availability now. Since I had 3 days of college and 4 days of work. But with the hopes of a day off from, I put the idea aside and went on.

It was one such working day when I was coming back from work. My shift ended at 10:00 pm at night, and it took me about 40 to 45 minutes to reach home via public transport and walk. On my way It was usual for me to open grindr and see who is around.

I was only a 5 minutes walking distance away from my house when I got a text from an almost empty profile. Now, I don't really mind taking to blank profiles, but if you want the conversation to go that way, u need to give me something. Haha. So I just texted him back saying 'hi' and 'how are you'.

In reply I got, 'milna?' Which basically means 'wanna meet?' In hindi or punjabi. It is a very usual thing on grindr, as you all know. People ignore your questions all the time to come straight to the point.

So, although I wasn't planning to meet him, I ignored his question back and started asking some general questions. Only to eventually make excuses that I'm coming home from a very long work and want to relax.

In the conversation that happened, I got to know that he was 26, from punjab, India, and had been living in Canada for the past 5 years. I went on telling about myself and told him that I'm vers guy, but not really looking for anal. hoping this might be where our interests unmatch.

But he went on and said he was also not looking for anal and just wanted to kiss cuddle and body play. That was the first thing he gave me, which made me interested. So I checked the distance, and it showed about 850m. My interest only grew higher. Though still not intending to meet him right away.

By now, I had reached home, tossed my bed aside, and lay on my bed. Small drops of rain tainting my glass window. I texted him that it's raining now, so It won't be possible, but i would like to meet him sometime. And if he's interested in sharing pics. Since he had already seen mine by that time as I had them on profile.

He said OK and shared his pic. It was a single pic, showed him whole standing in a distance in a nice outfit. He was a brown guy with a shade lighter than mine and looked healthy. Not in an overweight sense, but in an average sense. Like a fit guy, but not muscular. All i can say is i was into him as per looks. Not that I have a type, but there's something I like about thick guys.

After that, I dropped my phone and went on to cook something to eat. Half an hour later, which was around 11:20, I came back to my room and checked my phone, and there were three texts from him. In whole, it said, in hindi, 'Come now! The rain has stopped. It's not always that you find someone so close'.