since now you are a fan of BTS, I recommend you to listen to Mr. Kim Namjoon. He said "Love yourself" and I mean it.
Loving yourself means stopping self-harming, loving your body, taking care of yourself, taking care of God's temple, not starving yourself ( I don't think you'll do that will you?), and a lot more. don't over do yourself. Be who you're born to be. Don't fit in the molds that others did for you. You, are unique in your own way. Don't worry about what others might think fo you, don't see yourself in their eyes. YEs. you might sometimes need to listen to their advice and which not to. Not that I want to cultivate disobedience but to let you know that. HEy, don't completely shut your own voice, "wake up man, and listen to yourself."
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